Book of Memories for Glen Mervin Ellis

Story shared: The Eulogy

Fri, 03 Mar 2017 10:21:29 EST

On behalf of the Ellis and Willet families, we would like to thank everyone for being here to celebrate the life of Glen Ellis. He was the best friend and partner of Joyce for 36 years, a father to his four sons, who he loved and would do anything for, a father in law, a brother, brother in law, step father, grandfather, great granfather, Uncle and Great Uncle. You can be a father biologically, but a Dad is someone who is there for his children, and he was without a doubt an awesome Dad. The last couple of days, we have shared story after story together as a family. We have laughed, cried, and laughed more, because like us, I am sure that all of you can think of a time, when he touched our lives in some way or another. This past September, as a family, we celebrated Glen's 80th birthday, and as a family, we decided or I should say "he decided" that he didn't want a party, as he said he didn't like to make a "fuss". So we headed to this place called"North Fork" in Chapeau, Quebec. The owners daughter, who I am guessing was in her late 60"s, was helping serve the tables, and because she knew Glen's grandaughter, Nicole, came over and started to flirt with him. She said to him, "hey birthday boy, how old are you anyways? Glen said 80. She replied" you look like you could go anoter 80 rounds, betcha huh big boy? She then contnued to massage his shoulders teasingly. It was the first time I had ever seen him blush, but only for a moment. She asked him, what is that cane for? And he replied, 'To beat off the women". Needless to say there was lots of laughter at the supper table. Hunting. this was something he ejoyed through his younger days. At that time, Glen liked to enjoy a few drinks. Sometimes the naughty side would comeout, and he could land himself in hotwater. Gerald remembers one particular time with Larry, and the crew, and Glen got into the "gold slogger". The next morning, some people were not feeling to well. They sent Glen out in the pickup to do the watch. Larry and Gerald shot a moose and needed help, so Gerald got on the radio. "Glen you got a copy"? No respone. "Glen you got a copy?" no reponse. Larry said, "maybe there is something wrong?" Gerald said he is probably sleeping. Gerald tried one more time. "Glen yo got a copy?" Finally he replied. "Who is this?" Gerald said it's yor son, get your butt over here, Larry go a moose and we need your help. Some of you may remember Gold Crest Lodge. This was a restaurant, bar on Golden Lake and this was the family busness.The youngest son, Dean remembers it to be a very busy place. but Glen aways made time for the boys and their friends. Of course living on the water, you aways had some kind of a boat, and Dean would get his Dad to take him and his friend's water sking. Dean said, but not without a few beers for the boat ride. Dave Moore and him would grab the skiis and away they would go, double skiing, and no spotter most of the tme. Glen would go from one end of the lake to the other, and if anyone fell, he wouldn't realize untl he looked behind, and then he would turn around to go pick up his cargo. David was 16 years old, and had just got his beginners licence, and Glen and him had to go and get groceries for the lodge at Stricklands in Eganville. So David asked his Dad if he could drive. So off they went, got the groceries and loaded up the car, and as David went to get back behind the wheel, Glen said,"NO". David looked at him and Glen said "We ain't got all BLEEPING day! Now David has learned how to drive and exceed the speed limit. Terry also learned at and early age how to drive and get his Dad home from the Golden Lake Club house in the wee early morning hours in the old green Chevy truck, and more recently, shared special talks about the old days on their trips to many medical appointments in the city. These trips will always be a special memory for Terry. When Glen turned 80 he decided it was time to quit driving his truck, but time to get a motorcycle. Yes a motorcycle. When Gerald heard this, because Glen had already scoped one out, he called brother Dave, and that was just a memory. Instead the boys decided if he didn't want his truck, they would find him something else more suitable. A few weeks later, he was happily driving the "green machine" golf cart, back and forth to our place, down the snowobile trail. Our dog "Bear" always knew first he was coming, and would start to whine, because he knew "Grandpa" was coming and he would get to go for a ride. Glen loved it, no insurance, and the best part he said was that it only cost $11.00 in high test. As a father in law to Kim, Donna ad myself, he was so accepting, gentle, and kind. I am sure us girls will miss our talks about "the boys" with him. My last story to share, will be about getting Glen a cell phone.. Cell phones can be complicated, and it took some work, teaching him how to text, call, and take pictures. This was the greatest gift we could have given him. He would text Dean at 7:30 everyday, Dave several times a week, as they both live in Aylmer, Ontario and Cindy and Wolf or anybody whose number he knew would answer him. That also mean't you had to try and decipher his version of morse code. Once he figured out how to do all this he was on roll. He was on my plan, and he would come and pay me each month. I said to Gerald, "I think we have created a text monster, your Dad sent over 2,000 texts this month". On behalf of the boys, I could have shared more stories, but those will be theirs to remember, and to tell for years to come. I would like to share a poem that was sent to me by a friend. It's called "Remember Me." And as I read it, this is he: Don't remember me with sadness, don't remember me with tears, remember all the laughter we've shared throughout the years. Now I am contented,that my life, it was worthwhile, knowing that I passed along the way, and made somebody smile. When you are walking down the street, and youv've got me on your mind, I'm walking in your footsteps, only half a stop behind. So, please don't be unhappy, just because I'm out of sight, remember that I am with you each morning noon, and night. "May the road rise to meet you, May the wind be at your back, May the sun shine warm upon your face, May the rain fall gently on your fields until we meet again, until we meet again, May the Lord hold you in the palm of his hands." Goodbye Dad. We Love You!

Condolence From Mary (Ball) Clary

Fri, 03 Mar 2017 09:31:28 EST

My sympathy to the Ellis family. I remember you all and still remember the good times we had as children.

Condolence From Barbara Florent

Wed, 01 Mar 2017 22:42:33 EST

Dear Dear Joyce and Families. My prayers are with you at this sad time and always. J

Condolence From Cindy berndt

Tue, 28 Feb 2017 20:19:59 EST

So sorry for your loss. Glen was in for eggs a couple of weeks ago.always a gentleman

Condolence From Estralitta Taylor

Tue, 28 Feb 2017 14:46:36 EST

My thoughts, prayers and love are sent your way to express my sorrow for your loss... May you be comforted in knowing that Glen will be remembered as a loving man who meant so much to so many May happy memories shared give you peace and strength at this time of loss. Sincere sympathy to all the family. With Love, Letta

Condolence From Barry and Donna Proulx

Tue, 28 Feb 2017 08:49:25 EST

The Ellis Family May the beautiful memories you hold in your heart give you comfort and strength in the days ahead. Your father's love will be with you always. Our Sincere Sympathy

Condolence From Bob and Judy Hull

Mon, 27 Feb 2017 22:52:09 EST

Dave,Kim and family, Our sincere condolences to all of Glen's family. Those who touch our lives, stay in our hearts forever. Bob and Judy Hull and Family

Condolence From Myles Miller

Mon, 27 Feb 2017 18:54:19 EST

Joyce, Ellis family & Willet family, We were very saddened to hear of Glen's passing. We are thinking of you at this dificult time and our send our deepest sympathies. Myles & Cindy xo

Memorial Candle lit by Terry and Donna

Mon, 27 Feb 2017 15:31:04 EST

Terry and Donna

Condolence From Pat Laur & Wayne Tucker

Mon, 27 Feb 2017 13:40:57 EST

For the entire Ellis Family, We were shocked and saddened to hear the sad news about Glen. So glad to have had the chance to visit with him a few weeks ago. He was such a kind gentle man. Wayne and I will not be able to attend, but thoughts and prayers will be with all of you. R.I.P. dear friend. Pat & Wayne.

Story shared: Trailer

Mon, 27 Feb 2017 12:02:10 EST

I always enjoyed Glen's friendship and generous nature. In 1990 when I moved into Sundown Park, Glen pulled my trailer into it's existing position. He did an amazing job. When Glen and Joyce moved out of the park I missed their presence. However, over the years we kept some contact. Thankyou Glen for the happy and fond memories.

Charlie

Condolence From Charlie and Charlette Doiron

Mon, 27 Feb 2017 11:49:54 EST

Joyce and family,' Our love and prayers are with you all at this time. ETERNAL LIGHT Those we love must someday pass beyond our present sight Must leave us, the world we know without their radiant light But we know, that like a candle, their lovely light will surely shine To brighten up another place, more perfect and divine And in the realm of heaven Where they shine so warm and bright Our loved ones live forever more in God's Eternal Light.

Memorial Candle lit by Joyce & Family

Mon, 27 Feb 2017 11:21:44 EST

Joyce & Family

Memorial Candle lit by Joyce & Family

Mon, 27 Feb 2017 11:15:02 EST

Joyce & Family

Condolence From Maryanne Butler

Mon, 27 Feb 2017 10:21:27 EST

Dave,Kim and family, So sorry to hear of Glen's passing. Glen has faithfully plowed our road into the cottage during winter months for several years. He would stop by and chat anytime when passing by. He was a very kind and gentle man. Stephen and Maryanne Butler

Condolence From Jocelyne Chapleau

Mon, 27 Feb 2017 10:06:11 EST

Joyce and Family - I am so sorry to hear of Glen's passing. Please accept my sincere condolences. Glen was a wonderful, kind and gentle man and will certainly be missed by everyone who knew him.

Condolence From Ron & Dale Rantz

Mon, 27 Feb 2017 09:20:42 EST

To the Ellis Family: We were so sorry to hear about Glen. He was such a kind and generous man who was always willing to lend a hand. We remember him from the days at Steel Equipment and Storwal in Pembroke and later in the Golden Lake area. Our sincere sympathy to the family on your loss. Ron & Dale

Condolence From Ron & Corinne Rimmer

Mon, 27 Feb 2017 08:44:11 EST

Dave, Kim and Family. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

Condolence From Bert Menden

Sun, 26 Feb 2017 12:27:42 EST

My condolences to the entire family, and although I had not kept in touch in the last few years, I have fond memories of Glen and all those people connected to him, especially the "Gold Crest Lodge" era.

Condolence From Burton & Laura Lee Lavalley

Sun, 26 Feb 2017 12:09:44 EST

So sorry for your loss Joyce. Our deepest condolence to you and your family.

Condolence From Art & Della (Felhaber) Bouffard

Sun, 26 Feb 2017 11:26:45 EST

Dear Joyce & family, so sorry to hear of Glen's passing. Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you at this difficult time. We only met Glen once and never really got to know him, but heard so many wonderful things about him. He will be missed by many. Art & Della

Condolence From Wayne and Yvonne Gavey

Sun, 26 Feb 2017 11:00:05 EST

We are saddened by the news of your fathers passing. Our hearts go out to you Dave and all your brothers. Hold on to the memories of those great father /son moments you've shared. They are priceless.

Condolence From Dennis and Barb Spencer

Sun, 26 Feb 2017 10:35:32 EST

Dear Joyce & family So very sorry for your loss

Condolence From Carol Anne Zohr & Ed Gionet

Sun, 26 Feb 2017 10:26:22 EST

Dear Joyce & Family: Thinking of you at this difficult time. Our sincere heartfelt sympathy.

Condolence From Judie Dennee

Sun, 26 Feb 2017 10:13:29 EST

Dear David and Kim. I am so sorry to hear of Glen's passing . I only met Glen two weeks ago at Aunt Betty's funeral and we had a lively conversation about Donald Trump! We did share a lot of laughs about Donald that day. ❤️

Condolence From Mark and Cheryl Wilson

Sun, 26 Feb 2017 08:47:59 EST

Ellis families Many good memories in Golden Lake...thinking of you at this sad time...he will be missed by all who knew him. Ourthoughts and prayers are with you.

Condolence From Linda brown

Sun, 26 Feb 2017 07:14:36 EST

Dear Dave Kim and family. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Condolence From Dave Shackleton Colleen Collard

Sun, 26 Feb 2017 06:52:12 EST

Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.

Condolence From Charlie and Sharon Warnock

Sat, 25 Feb 2017 21:47:23 EST

Dear Dave,Kim and family. Our sincere condolences for the passing of Dave's dad. May you treasure the memories of him. Charlie and Sharon

Photo shared: Ellis 2.jpg

Sat, 25 Feb 2017 06:44:57 EST